Long and Lasting Relationship (Process Analysis)

Teenagers now a days have this thing we called "Love Life". They say love will turn your world upside down. Most of teenagers whose in love often remove their bad habits just for the sake of their love ones. Sometimes they become their inspiration and motivation to study hard but this isn't all about that.Sometimes love lead to the opposite effect, mostly when you and your lover separates or breaks apart. Love is the strength as well as a weakness to people. But there are 3 ways to make your relationship last.

First step, is the honesty of you and your partner. You two must tell what you fell for each other. What you like about him/her as well as your dislikes for him/her to change it for you.  You shouldn't lie or hide anything to him/her. If you made a mistake just ask for forgiveness. Don't hide anything because secrets, sooner or later, will be revealed and it will hurt him/her more if he/she hear it from others. 

Next step is to trust one another, don't just believe to anything bad people say about your partner. Talk to him/her abou it first. Say your problems to him/her as well. Sometimes he/she can help you handle it. It's comforting to have someone beside you when you have a hard time.

And the third and the last step is show your love to your partner in a balanced way. No more, no less. Loving him/her so much makes you possessive and will easily get jealous and that will lead him/her to love you less and less to the point where he/she will let go. Loving him/her less can also be a problem. He/She will be hurt by the way you treat him/her and eventually fell out of love for you. Don't also make him/her always be the one to do the first move. Sometimes tell him/her the three words: "I love you" first to make him/her know you mean it. Responding back to those words aren't that satisfying than to make you say it first.

This ways can assure you that you will have a long and lasting relationship.Don't be afraid of changing and sacrificing for the sake of your lover after all, Love will turn your world upside down.